Friday, May 7, 2010

This Week In Tot School...

Will LOVES Tot School.

He tells me "Mommy, I want to do a game with you!", (referring to our Tot School activities) and gets so excited whenever I have something planned for us to do. This week was a very educational one for Will. It was all about shapes - some traditional, some nontraditional.

Will has been way beyond his chunky puzzles for months now, but I always like to find new ways to repurpose previously loved toys. So when I saw this suggestion, I thought it would be a fun addition to our "shapes" week. The first round was purposely easier, just to give him the hang of it. I just traced around the pieces onto some paper and he had to match the piece up to its outline. He did this in no time at all.

The lacing animals seemed like they would be a little harder because all the animals were generally the same size and shape with just a few small differences. Plus the wood pieces are painted the same on front and back so he would have to figure out which direction I traced each one to correctly match it.
But once again, this was no challenge for him. He did seem to enjoy it, however, and did request to do it more than once through the week.

This next activity was super fun. It's called a stereognostic (or "mystery") bag. I found two of each object shown and placed one in the bag and one on the tray for Will to see. Then he touched each piece, told me what it was and talked about its properties (smooth, soft, hard, round, etc.) Next, he told me which item he was going to find and had to reach inside the bag without looking (I held the bag) and pull out the correct one, selected by touch alone. Pretty cool, huh?
We did this twice in a row and then Will wanted to challenge daddy. So he called out an item for daddy to find and told him what it should feel like. He also repeatedly told him "Remember! Don't look!" (just like I told Will several times - LOL).
On another night, Will took a piggy back ride around the house and we pointed out all the shapes we saw, i.e. the door is a rectangle, the pillow is square, the clock is a circle, the kitchen floor tiles are square. Then I introduced the names and concepts of three new "shapes": sphere, cylinder and cube. I described it like this: a circle is flat, a sphere is like a ball; a cylinder has a circle on top, a circle on the bottom and is long in between; and a cube is like a square with many sides or many squares. I wrote their names on three pieces of paper and drew a rough sketch of each one. Then I pulled a bunch of objects around the house and set them on the buffet and Will had to sort them on the dining room table by its correct shape.
We had a beach ball, a soft baseball, a bath toy ball, a pom pom and a marble. We also had a roll of paper towels, several cans and cannisters, a gift box, a block and his shape sorting cube. Cylinders are very common in our every day life! Will can now recognize all three of these shapes and tell me their names at random when I ask him what shape something is. He forgets the word "sphere" sometimes or it comes out "suh-phere", like "severe", but he says cylinder and cube really well and it's very cute. I'm very impressed with how well he did and I think this was a very good vocabulary lesson! Afterward, he played with his shape sorter for awhile, so I'm glad I was able to renew his interest in that again. :)
As I research all these ideas on Tot School activities, I find so little that applies to the "baby" set. I understand that most logical concepts are beyond them for awhile yet, but I would still like to come up with some fun activities for Sophie that set the stage for all of the cool stuff Will is doing. So many of her favorite "toys" are not actually toys at all. She loves that little shaker toy that I made her awhile back from an empty (washed out) honey container filled with a couple tablespoons of dry split peas, so this week I made her another (since I just finished another container of honey after making those granola bars last week) filled with colorful, pony beads. They make a slightly different sound than the peas and are much prettier to look at.
A couple concepts that I like to really play into with Sophie are object permanence (like that game we played with hiding an object under an upturned bowl for her to lift and discover) and that wonderful, tedious work only babies do where they sit for long periods putting objects into a container and then taking them out... and putting them back in and taking them back out. I'm sure there's a name for it, but all I can come up with is "repetitive" and "cause and effect". Most of what I've read says that that doesn't really start to take effect until about 12-15 months or so, but we're now at the beginning of that age range so I decided to try it. I came up with this:
An empty (washed out) wipes container filled with ten, colorful, giant pom poms for some sensory fun too. I bought a huge bag of various sizes of pom poms back when I had Will sort by size, and we always come up with new ways to entertain ourselves with these bad boys. So I showed Sophie how to open the container and what was inside. Then I let her do it herself and she LOVED it!!
Repeatedly, she opened, closed, opened, closed, opened, closed the container. Then finally she decided to take out one or two balls, close it, then open again, put those balls back, close it, and repeat something similar to this over and over.

The new and the old shakers.


Hmm... does this fit in there?
Suddenly, she hears daddy go by on the lawnmower (we were up in my bedroom sitting on the bed).
And later I found the new shaker in the microwave of their kitchen toy.
Comparing sounds...
Not sure when this happened, but these jammies are WAY too small on her. They barely cover her belly!
This is a great toy to keep beside the changing table for distraction while I change her diaper.
Awhile back, I bought this Melissa & Doug mosaic puzzle game and just held onto it to introduce when it fit into our lessons. It has a magnetic, white board and about ten or so pictures (front and back) to follow as a diagram. Or you can just leave the board blank and create your own. It is fun and Will really enjoyed it.
He's known the name and shape of a trapezoid since we did our popsicle stick shape building a few weeks ago, so this was a nice refresher on vocabulary with yellow hexagons, blue parallelagrams, red trapezoids, etc.


Another evening, Will patterened "cylinders and cubes" (lacing pieces) onto a skewer poked into styrofoam. He's really improved his understanding of patterns and can now do an ABAB pattern with no problem. He also knows it's called a "pattern" and told me "look at this pattern!"
We talked about the shapes that end in "-agon" as they can get kind of jumbled together. I drew each side in as a different color to differentiate the sides and then numbered them to help him stay on track when counting the sides. This was a good practice in 1:1 counting too and I may try more counting activities where the counted object is actually numbered because it helps prevent him from getting ahead of himself. Admittedly, this was a pretty boring activity and we didn't spend a long time on it.
Counting sides...
Another stereognostic bag:
Describing the di in his hand as a "small cube".
Reaching inside with focus. :)
And then practicing on daddy again and reminding him (again) not to look. LOL
On another day, Will sequenced some cylinders (a.k.a. paper towel/toilet paper tubes) by height...

And finally, on Friday night, daddy made Will one of his coolest activities of the whole week: a geoboard! To make it, Craig took an approximately 1'x1' piece of wood and drilled 25 screws into it (five rows of five), each 2" apart. Then we took rubberbands and created all different sorts of shapes around the board. So cool!
I didn't really plan this, but we had different colored rubberbands, which helped to differentiate our shapes when they overlapped. And surprisingly, Will had no trouble with rubber bands snapping his fingers at all.
We made all sorts of shapes including squares, triangles, rectangles, hexagons, octagons, trapezoids and parallelagrams. We couldn't make circles or pentagons, but Will didn't seem to mind. And of course he had help for most of these, but it was a really good learning tool for how to create shapes.
We also brought back out and worked on our popsicle stick shape building activity this week and used it as a sort of diagram for working with our geoboard.
So that was our week and we definitely had some good, educational fun! What a great vocabulary lesson for Will too! He learned the words: cylinder, cube, sphere and mosaic!
Also, on our way home from the library on Saturday, Will pointed out a "new"-to-him street sign by saying "Look at that red octagon inside the yellow diamond, mommy!" We talk about the shapes and colors of street signs often so this was not an unusual conversation for him, (although I think he assumes all many-sided, red shapes are octagons at first glance) but I was just impressed with his observance of one "inside" the other and saying it in a way that made sense. It was a "stop sign ahead" street sign and he'd never seen one before. I just love listening to him point out and talk and converse about anything and everything he observes, thinks about or feels. It's so exciting for me!
Next week, we're venturing into some art... hopefully. I am like the least artistic person on the planet. But I want to expose my kids to more than just MY hobbies and skills, so I'm giving it a shot. Nothing fancy, but hopefully fun. Stay tuned!

Flashback Friday

I'm not sure why, but this particular comparison came to me this week while I wasn't even looking at pictures. I love this picture of Craig as a child -he is adorable - and suddenly I remembered a very similar smiling picture of Will. So tonight I dug it up and, sure enough, they look like twins! (Except with different hair colors.) And P.S. - the only reason I have all these pictures of Craig and I (that you've seen in recent posts) as children was because we had a photo slideshow playing in the foyer at our wedding reception and these were the ones we'd scanned in. I'd love to scan more though 'cause old pictures are so fun.

Anyway, what do you think?

I'm pretty sure there's an age gap here, but still...And one more flashback, just for fun...

Craig as a child again:

And an adult Craig, blowing bubbles for his son:

I love flashbacks. :)

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Good Advice

"Do what you can,
with what you have,
where you are."
I pass a church on my way to work that has a new message on their sign out front every week or so. They're always pretty insightful and this one really spoke to me. I'm looking at it from the perspective of a busy, working mom and wife and always trying to stay on top of everything. It can be exhausting day in and day out and it's easy to beat yourself up about not accomplishing superhuman amounts of work/tasks/activities.
In our highly competitive world, people often put too many expectations on themselves (whether real or imagined). As generations go by, we are more and more fast paced and stressed out. I can't think of where, but I recently read some articles in a couple magazines about a "slow down movement" and people/families making changes in lifestyle to fight against the always busy, crazy-making lifestyle.
The most important thing to me is that my family is healthy and know that they're loved and cared for. I'm trying to remember that checking off my to-do list is far less important than quality time with them. Sometimes it's more important to just step back and be still.

Monday, May 3, 2010

Just Some Recent Faves

Sophie's recent hair growth spurt! I love it!
It looks a little strawberry-blondish... no?
Very soft and whispy - definitely thinner like mommy's.
Will & Craig, Friday night after dinner.

Tough guys - Craig told Will to make a fist and a mean face. LOL

This one cracks me up because Will kept looking away from me while I was trying to take the picture and I was saying "look at ME, Will!" So here he was saying "cheese" super exaggerated like "Seriously, woman! Get off my back already!" :)
Just a little lovin' from daddy.
These were totally random, but I love them.

Thanks for snapping this one, Case! It's hilarious and I love it!
Craig's home and Will gets to help him pull the Jeep into the garage. Wee!
Waiting for her bath to fill. Sophie is modeling her new summer sandals (which are still a little too big, but much better than the last time we tried them on!) and waving to mommy.
I could just eat her up!
Pretty little lady.

This Week's Reading List...

Several more nice things about our new library routine:
1) I am not only learning the library filing system, but also getting familiar with lots of children's book authors and classic, "must-read" books. It's fun!
2) I'm "previewing" all these books (instead of just buying like I used to) and keeping track of our favorites with an Amazon wish list. That way, whenever I (or anyone else) need a gift idea for the kids, I have a running list of books I already know Will likes.
3) Will and I talk a lot on the way to and from the library. When it's just us in the car (which is rare) we have a lot of good coversation!

Here's some of our favorite books that I've added to the Amazon wish list:
1) Are You My Mother? - (we really like P.D. Eastman)
2) The Very Busy Spider
3) Llama, Llama books
4) Blueberries for Sal - (this one is probably the most talked about since returning it)
5) Is Your Mama a Llama?
And Will has a birthday coming up, so this will come in handy!

This week at the library, Will enjoyed returning our previous books in the return slot again, watching me look up a book in the online directory, playing with a few toys in the library and browsing a few board books while I hunted for new ones. Then he learned what a bar code looks like and helped me scan all our books at the check out.

Here's what we checked out this week:
1) Cars! Cars! Cars! by Grace MacCarone - Will picked this one on his own and it's very similar to Go, Dog! Go! He loves it.
2) The Three Little Pigs by Timothy Donehoo
3) Sheep in a Jeep by Nancy Shaw - a little dull... everything rhymes with sheep and Jeep.
4) The Best Nest by P.D. Eastman - another good one.
5) Annie and the Wild Animals by Jan Brett - one of Will's top 3 this week... Jan Brett is fabulous.
6) Over in the Meadow by Louise Voce - I really like this one. I always dig the cute rhymey books.
7) Cock-a-doodle Quack! Quack! by Ivor Baddiel & Sophie Jubb - this was a last minute grab from the display shelf at the library... and it was a good thing we did! Definitely Will's #1 choice this week and definitely added to the wish list. Very cute and funny.
8) Time for Bed by Mem Fox - I think this will gradually grow on Will to become a favorite. If it weren't for #7 and #5 being read first, this probably would have been his favorite. It's full of animals and a good bedtime read. I think I'll put this on the wish list too - maybe a board book copy. It's a quick read so it'll be good for Sophie.

We usually read ALL our books several times throughout the weekend and then each night before bed on week nights. It's amazing how much he picks up and remembers about these books. He still talks about Sal dropping the blueberries in the pail and says "kuplink, kuplank, kuplunk". Or when we were shopping for new shoes on Sunday evening, I reminded him that if he can be patient and cooperate like Llama, Llama (in the Mad at Mama book), we'll be done shopping sooner. He can finish lines for you if you pause mid sentence in any given book by the second or third time through and he LOVES it if you let him finish the last words of a rhyming book (each line).

We have a SUPER busy day next Saturday, so we'll see if we get to make our trip out. I'll miss it if we don't.

Sunday, May 2, 2010

How To Put On Pants

I just assumed the first born child in a family was always very independent.
And maybe things will change, but right now, Will prefers to be babied. If I ask him to try dressing himself or doing something for himself, his response is always "No, mommy. I caaaaaan't." So our last practical life task (putting on and pulling off pants) has taken quite awhile. He would just as soon have mom or dad do everything for him. But accomplishing this skill will make all our lives easier, especially in the morning, so I'm really pushing it.
This was Saturday morning. Starting simple with sweat pants and a t-shirt. I showed him how to look for the tag and make sure that goes in the back.
When he started to put both legs in the same leg hole, he caught himself and said "nooooo...."
Then he corrected it and said "therrre you go".
This picture cracks me up. Craig wants to save it as a screensaver. LOL :)
And now the shirt. Figure out which side goes in front, find the head hole and pull over noggin, then the rest is cake.

I did it!!!


He does feel proud of himself when he accomplishes this, so I'm trying to maximize on the pride reward. :)

What's For Dinner? May Week 1

First here's some pictures from Friday's dinner at The Olive Garden for Grandpa's birthday.

Lovely.
Soph wore one of her summer dresses since it was so nice out. Love this face. :)
Haha - this expression cracks me up.
Happy Birthday, Grandpa!
Straws are fun!

Happy girl. She was totally posing for the camera whenever Grandma wanted to get a picture. And I managed to distract her long enough to get a bow in her hair without her noticing. But she found it and pulled it out towards the end of dinner.
Here's a review of last week's Weelicious meals. On a 1-5 scale where 5 is high/good:
1) Fajitas - 4 (good but could use a little more kick)
2) Mac chicken 'n cheese bites - 3 (fair)
3) Balsamic chicken - 5 (wonderful flavor and super moist - I grilled it on the panini grill)
I spoke too soon about Sophie and her wonderful eating habits. The girl has taken a slight detour for the worse, but we're working around it and persistently exposing her to lots of things and keeping meal time stable. She has taken to being very noisy (babbling, yelling, whining) at meal time and also refusing quite a bit more. She likes her dairy and does pretty good with a handful of fruits, veggies and grains. She prefers legumes to meat and tends to turn her nose up at red or orange fruits and vegetables (except winter squash and sweet potatoes). Whatev. I'm not that easy to break down. It just takes a little persistance and creativity, right?
On the menu this week:
1) Chicken, peach & bell peppers skewers - (http://weelicious.com/2009/08/12/chicken-peach-bell-pepper-skewers/). I call them "kabobs" and I used nectarine instead of peaches 'cause Meijer didn't have peaches this week. They were pretty good! I'd give them a 4.5, I think. I cut up the chicken into chunks on Thursday night after grocery shopping and froze it until Saturday night when I pulled it out again to thaw. Then I cut up the peppers and nectarines Sunday and marinated everything for several hours during the day. In the evening, I skewered it and grilled it on the open-faced, panini grill before finishing under the broiler.
2) Big salads with sauteed chicken strips and white beans and a balsamic and dijon mustard vinegarette. This has been posted here many times. It's an easy favorite. Again, I cut up the chicken into strips on Thursday at the same time as the kabob chunks and then froze it. Now I'm going to just saute the chicken and prepare the salads on Monday night.
3) Lasagna - mom's recipe. Basic and delicious. I divided the 13x9 recipe into two square bakers again to put one in the freezer and not have excessive leftovers.
4) Homemade granola bars - (http://familyfun.go.com/recipes/energy-boost-bars-688876/). Again, I know I've posted this one before. They're easy and tasty. I like to pack them for work with a yogurt and Will eats them for lunch or snack. All my square bakers are currently in use in the freezer or with the lasagna this week, so I just pressed it into a pie plate and that worked out fine.
P.S. - I've been told by at least three people that they've adopted a more organized method of weekly meal planning and/or regular "cook-ahead nights" since reading my posts each week! Hooray! Good for you! It makes the week so much easier. And I enjoy writing about food so you can bet I'll keep these posts coming. Please don't hesitate to share any great recipes, websites, links, etc. in the comments. :)